Infidelity. How can you move past it? It is possible. The majority of couples that go through infidelity recovery do stay together. Believe it or not it can actually be the catalyst to restart and ignite a more intimate and passionate relationship. Many times, it blows the doors off the issues that neither wanted to talk about or maybe they just did not know how to start the conversations about getting their intimate and sexual needs met.
Who teaches us about how to be a sexual partner? It is not something our parents are going to go into detail about nor we would not want them to! I have heard marriage prepares us for marriage and there is some truth to that. I can help couples find their voices within the relationship and learn what it is they need.
I will note that if your marriage did not work out, it is vital that you figure out how you contributed to it and take responsibility for your mistakes so that you do not repeat them. We tend to repeat the same patterns within relationships.
Esther Perel has written a very helpful book about affairs called The State of Affairs, Rethinking Infidelity .
